So you’re ready to start dating again and you want to find the right guy…where should you go???
In this episode, I’m going to share the best places for you to go to find the right person for you!
I’m also going to talk about what you should do first before you start your search!
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There are many different people out there who have many different interests so the possibilities of going somewhere to meet someone are endless.
The question is not, “Where should you go to meet the right guy?”…The question is, “Where should YOU go to find YOUR right guy?”
First off, you want to make sure that you are being true to yourself first and foremost.
Go to places that make you feel comfortable.
If friends are urging you to go out to a club, a popular bar, or even to an online dating site, and you are totally not feeling it, then don’t go. These places are not where you would normally go so they’ll place you outside of your comfort zone. You’ll only end up meeting guys who are comfortable in that particular setting and creates an unfair advantage for you…that is not a good way to start a relationship.
Instead, visit the places that you are comfortable with: your favorite coffee shop, a gym, etc. In these comfortable settings, you’ll feel more at ease to be yourself, laugh, relax, and open up to others.
Remember, you want to stay true to you no matter what.
Don’t go to places that worked for other people…you’re not them and everyone is different. If you want to start a great relationship with someone, it requires you to be comfortable in your own skin first.
Also, it’s probably a good idea to keep in mind what you’re actually looking for in a relationship. What you want to do is create a list of what your ideal boyfriend likes and dislikes.
For example, do they like to read? Is he cultured and enjoy going to museums? Maybe they’re athletic and like to stay active? Are they a sports fanatic?
These attributes will also give you a snapshot of where to go to find your ideal guy.
And I want to encourage to be open to things that may not come across your list!
I would have never in a million years thought that my husband would enjoy NASCAR Racing and country music (NOT that there’s anything wrong with that!) These items were just never on my list! However, we did have enough in common to explore new places and new activities together once our relationship grew.
Bottom line is that creating an ideal date list will help you to realize what kind of dates you’d like to go on.
Once you see this, you’ll know where you should go to start looking in order to meet the right guy for you.
The absolute best place for you to find the guy is going to be a place where you are completely comfortable and yourself.
At the end of the day, you want to make sure that you’re able to speak your mind, laugh, think, and feel good wherever you go, with whomever you’re with.
If you want to live a life that you absolutely love, then you have to know who you are and what you stand for!
So before you start your search, search within yourself and determine what’s fun and exciting for you then go there. This will bring you one step closer to finding the perfect environment that will lead to you towards a lasting love.
Where should YOU go that could help you end up finding Mr. Right? Share in the comments below!