Love Tip #84: Stay true to yourself. Your Mr. Right will love that about you the most. Click To Tweet
Oh crap! You like a guy and now you’re trying WAAAYYYY too hard to get him to like you!
There are many reasons why one would attempt to pull this off. Many of which I cover in this video.
Also, there are many reasons why your family and friends are looking at you like, “I can’t believe she is just throwing herself at this guy!” Again, I’ll cover that in this video as well.
It all boils down to this: after trying too hard to get a guy to fall for you, you’re destined to feel a number of ways:
- confused about why it didn’t work out
As a single woman, one might not even realize that they are doing this. I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt here… and the reason why is because I used to be this girl.
I would become the very shadow of my crushes. And it was downright pathetic.
I would change my style to match theirs.
My music playlist changed to all the same types of music that my crush liked.
I even began to say the same phrases and expressions as them!
It was a bit much, but I didn’t realize my mistake until after I was burned and left alone.
I couldn’t understand why it didn’t work out between us since we had so much “in common”.
Sidenote: This is mainly why I am sooo into understanding WHO YOU ARE first before looking for a guy!
It didn’t click to me until one night I was texting with an Ex and he told me to go back to drinking “Royal Flushes”. I had no idea what this meant until I realized that he was referring to the drink I “used to drink” before I met him.
Once we hooked up, I began drinking whiskey… something I NEVER did until I met him.
Then it hit me: I was definitely NOT the woman I once was. And I allowed myself to be so consumed by this man that I totally left the old me behind.
What actually ended up happening when I decided to be myself and NOT change who I was for a guy was I met the man who was perfect for me and is now my husband.
Not sayin… just sayin.
So, in today’s video, I share with you (or your friends) exactly WHY women try too hard to get guys to like them AND I’ll cover what you can do about it! Watch below.