Valentine’s Day is approaching. And you got yourself a hot date!
This is very exciting news. Butterflies are everywhere, and your mind is probably racing through a million thoughts!
I mean, if you think about it, this could be the One.
For a lot of single women, this very hopeful date could become a game changer.
Sure, we’re both considering ALL of these things (and more), BUT we’re forgetting about one very important person…
And that person is you.
Are you staying true to yourself when love finally approaches?
For a long time, I myself was afraid to even date because in the past, I would lose myself in the relationship. Every. Time.
I would no longer indulge in the hobbies, places, and activities that I liked. Instead I would do the things and go to the places that he liked. Now, I listened to his music, ate his food, and even stopped going to church because I wanted to “strengthen” our relationship. (How crap-backwards is that?!)
I would get so caught up in the guy that was into me that I would completely forget to stay in tuned with myself. Before I knew it, the relationship was over and I was mess because I had no idea how I was as an individual and what I was going to do with myself.
Nine times out of ten, the excitement and joy of meeting someone new completely overshadows the “single glory days” that helped shaped the woman who you now are!
And because of this, women often begin to lose sight in themselves, their goals, their values, and even their beliefs.
This is often why breakups can become soooo excruciating!
In this video, I share want to share with you a few things that will help you stay true to yourself when love finally approaches!
[bctt tweet=”Love Tip #77: Losing yourself in your #relationship gives no clear direction for future love.”]