There are so many things to focus on in order to improve your marriage. One of the most important things is building your sexual intimacy in marriage.
I believe for many wives out there, they don’t feel nor believe that it’s anyone’s business. And for that matter, the problem that remains a whisper in the night goes unsolved leaving wives and their marriages on the brink of breakdowns.
As women of faith, we get it. Sex is important when it comes to marriage. Like, really important.
However, if you’re not actively focused on how to make it better over time, then of course, there are sure to be some bumps along the way.
Let’s face it: sex in marriage is one thing that should always be a top priority yet is almost always overlooked.
Married couples just assume that the problem behind building that intimacy in the bedroom has to do with how often you do it. Or, how detached a wife’s thoughts are when it’s time to “do her wifely duty”.
Girl, this could not be further from the truth! There are so many layers that go into this thing. And if you’re only going to approach the situation by claiming that the number of times you “do it” is the problem, then I’m afraid that it will always be a problem.
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Take my husband and I. We are both young when we got married. Our honeymoon was a dream come true. And while we haven’t even been married for ten years yet, there have been some sexual intimacy hiccups along the way.
Even though we waited to have sex until we were married. Even though we were both sexually active prior to meeting each other. There. Were. Still. Problems.
And these problems were things that you may not even consider until you’re actually in the thick of it.
Problems that dealt with past traumas. Or hormonal changes. Even how our work schedules or day-to-day energy levels were affected.
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There are so many factors that could affect your sexual desires in marriage. The key is learning what you can do to build that intimacy season after season.
There might be different solutions that apply to different factors. And while you both are in this relationship for the long haul, wouldn’t it be wise to consistently learn how to address those sexual tensions?
Remember, your marriage is going to constantly evolve. You and your husband will change over time. Such can be said regarding this area of your life.
So, In this video, I’m going to share 3 things that you and your spouse can try to BOOST your sexual intimacy in marriage!
I can attest to each of these things as they have personally worked over time between my husband and I. And while some of these things were a bit of a challenge (for the both of us!) overall, it helped us grow closer and learn how to understand one another. Thus, making our sexual intimacy grow deeper and stronger!
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Now, of course, it’s important to recognize that sexual intimacy in marriage is not the ONLY way to be intimate with your spouse. There are levels to this! So, if you’re not growing intimately deeper mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, then naturally, your sex drive and lifestyle will be affected as a result!