Redefine

The “Redefining” Stage

This is the stage where you are ready emotionally, mentally, and spiritually to get back into the dating scene in hopes of landing a solid relationship.  But we’re not gonna treat this like all those past seasons.  No, no, this time, you now know some things!  You done been through some stuff!

And you’re gonna USE THAT EXPERIENCE to help you love smarter!  It’s time to REDEFINE what love looks like according to your mind, spirit, and heart!

Here are ALL THE WAYS you can invest in yourself to redefine your dating season and future relationships!

Part One:  The Dating Season

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4 First Date Tips When You Meet Someone New

When you lack a good set of first date tips, dating can often feel like a bit of a drag. To be honest, most women dread the thought of having to go on those first dates! All because they had bad experiences that practically traumatized the very thought of having to go...

Can Your Man Step Up His Spiritual Leadership?

There is nothing more attractive in a man of God than to have him be grounded in his spiritual leadership. As a woman of faith, you're most likely drawn to his drive to seek God, and that makes you feel secure in the fact that together, you both would be drawing...

How To Pray For Future Love (The Right Way!)

Praying for future love is not uncommon. Especially when you're single or new to dating. In fact, if you're pretty focused on improving your prayer life and/or your relationship with God, and you fall into one of those relationship statuses, then yes, it's actually...

When You Break Up During The Holidays

I've been through many breakups. But when I experienced a break up during the holidays, it almost took me out. To the natural eye, my breakup would seem like any other breakup. There were some words. I shed some tears. And the path to recovery was long and hard....

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Date Again

Have you ever been afraid to date again? If you have, then you're not alone. In this day and age, it seems like everywhere you turn, there is always something (or someone) that wants to repel you from dating. That is, if you're dating with the intentions of finding...

Why Christian Women Aren’t (FULLY) Trusting God With Their Love Life

I always claimed that I was "trusting God" when it came to my love life. But man-oh-man did my love life experience prove otherwise. In a sense, I was looking to God whenever I was dating or in a relationship. However, my prayers always seemed to be one-sided. I...

The Key Most Overlooked When Looking For Love

When looking for love, I thought the process was simple. You find a guy you like. You flirt back and forth for a while. Eventually the conversation shifts into a continuous text as you get to know each other better. Then the dates. The attraction grows. Before you...

Are You Still A “Christian” If You Have Premarital Sex?

When it comes to Christian dating, premarital sex is a big no-no. However, in today's modern dating culture, it's almost a certain that sex is sprinkled somewhere into the equation. There's this underlying pressure placed on both males and females to awaken their...

How Christian Women Should Date In Today’s World

Dating as Christian women in today's world can seem frustrating, terrifying, and intimidating! There are so many rules to follow and it requires a lot of trust. When it comes to the men and the modern dating expectations, these two elements just don't mix! I get it....

How To Have A Relationship With Someone Who Has Past Trauma

More people are dealing with past trauma than we can ever imagine. From crazy childhoods to terrible breakups, chances of someone being affected by the pains of the past are high. Not to mention, the mental health battles among men and women when it comes to anxiety,...

Part Two:  In A Relationship

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5 Questions To Ask BEFORE You Get Married!

Before you get married, there are some things you need to take care of. The wedding plans. Where you both will live once you're married. Where to go on your honeymoon. Etc. However, before you even get into all of that, I think there are a few more very critical...

3 Ways To Spend The Holidays When You’re In A Relationship

Sharing the holidays when you're in a relationship can be one of the most stressful parts of the actual relationship. For starters, the holidays are already pretty stressful times. Just being honest here. There are extra activities you gotta squeeze in, and having to...

Should Your Guy Give You His Passwords?

Should you be entitled to get your guy's passwords? There are a lot of women out there who would read that last sentence and know exactly how to answer it! It's either, "Yes, of course! We should hold nothing back from each other!" Or it's, "Absolutely not! Everyone...

When Your Man Doesn’t Want To Pray With You

We all want a man who's a prayer warrior... so what if he doesn't want to pray? Don't get me wrong. You probably have a really nice guy that you love and loves the Lord. But lately, you've been yearning to go deeper with your faith. And man, wouldn't be it awesome if...

Can An Impure Past Affect Your Wedding & Marriage?

If you have an impure past, does that mean that you're wedding and marriage will be doomed? In a way, this is how I used to think. That whatever damage I did in my past was gonna follow me into my future. And at the time, I was actually ok with that. It was sort of a...

What To Expect On Your Wedding Day

I spent over a year planning out my wedding day. And you can even say that I spent my entire life fantasizing about how this day would go. Was I nervous? Sure. A little. I mean, what bride isn't? But you have to also understand that Kyle and I spent a LOT of time...

5 Signs That Scream “Break Off Your Engagement”

As happy as you may wanna be, sometimes it's better to break off your engagement than to go through the entire wedding and end in a divorce. But that's always easy for some Brides to see when they're all caught up in the moment. Sure, your friends and family can see...

Five Must-Do Things The Minute You Get Engaged

When you finally get engaged, there are approximately one million things that will seriously run through your head. What is happening?Look at that ring!How much did he pay for that?What is life right now??Why did it take so long?How did he plan this out?Who helped him...

What It Really Means to Submit To Your Husband

When I got engaged to Kyle and was instructed to "submit" to him... oh, there were some problems. In my head, I was all like, "oh, so that means you're supposed to just win from here on out simply because you're a man?" Yeah. I really took it there. And even though it...

4 Reasons Why He Still Hasn’t Proposed

Nothing is worse than assuming you have a great relationship with someone and having no explanation as to why he still hasn't proposed. And believe me, I've been there before. I'm gonna tell you right now, that there could be a very logical explanation for this. Or......

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