When you’re fresh out of a relationship, it’s natural to wonder how to get your ex back.
Of course you do! Even then the breakup (and parts of the relationship) may have been sloppy! Even though YOU KNOW that deep down, breaking up was the right move!
Yet, there is still something there that makes you long for him. Perhaps it was all of the good times and happy memories that you both share.
It could also be the fact that you both share a history together.
All in all, I’d say that the reason why women tend to want to reach out to their ex is because they want what they used to have.
There’s a comfort there. A piece of you that knows exactly what you’ll get should you go backwards to that setting.
Before all of the drama, and lying, and fighting ever happened, you want to go back to the time when laughter and love was in full bloom.
And sure, there’s also a part of you that misses him… whether you’d like to admit that or not.
I get it, girl. I was that girl too once. I remember being so stuck on the idea that I would be waiting for my ex to come back that it literally stunted me from growing on my own!
Call it desperation, call it delusional, call it whatever you want. I straight-up had it in my mind that I was going to wait for as long as it would take for him to love me again.
EVEN THOUGH that dude was going on dates with new women! Still, there was something in me that gave me peace knowing that some day my prince would come (back).
Looking back, I probably sounded crazy as all what when he received my letter declaring that I would wait and would continue to love him. To be honest, I find it pretty crazy myself now that I am happily married with someone else!
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But sister, let me tell you right now, that choosing to wait for my ex was a terrible decision! And if you’re out there wondering how to get your ex back, then I want to caution about that choice that you’re making as well!
There are so many reasons why doing this would leave you with the short end of the stick. But for time’s sake, I’d like to share six of them with you in this post.
Do you sit up at night and think about how to get your ex back? Are you struggling with being alone sometimes and thoughts of him just come out of nowhere and enter into your space because you miss what you once had… or how he used to make you feel…
Even if only for just one text…
One more night…
In this video, I’m gonna share SIX REASONS as to why you should stop trying wondering how to get him back (EVEN WHEN you still love him!!)
Click below to enjoy this video!
Girl, I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: If you’re wondering how to get your ex back, I’m gonna encourage you to stop.
This breakup could very well be the biggest blessing in disguise that you’ll ever receive! Be open to what God has in store for you and trust the closed doors when they come!