Thanks for stopping by! I’m Selina Almodovar, Christian Relationship blogger, author of an upcoming book (eek!), Coach, wife, mother, and believer of Christ. If you are tired of being single, tired of playing the dating games, and are finally ready to add more love into your life, but have no idea where to start, then you’re in the right place. This is the perfect page to get started!
Through my products and coaching courses, videos, and published articles, I focus on preparing Christian, single, millennial women to experience the love they have been missing for most of their adult lives: Love in Christ, love in themselves, and love from their potential Mr. Right.
Not only that, once you think you’ve found “The One” I help you prepare your relationship to last, from the moment you go “Exclusive”, all the way down the aisle where you’ll happily say, “I DO”!
My belief in helping you prepare for love is simple: Understand where true love comes from, learn to give & receive it from God, yourself and others, and create a love-life that will accept nothing less. That’s what I’m all about!
WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN PREPARING FOR LOVE
There are many types of love that we receive from the world. Usually, as a single woman, you tend to really just focus on the romantic love with Mr. Right. Without it, you may feel empty and spend a lot of time trying to find it. However, many go searching for love without taking the time to actually prepare for it.
When you prepare for love, you begin a journey that will help you shift how you receive (and give) love so that there’s more balance in your love-life, whether a man is present or not. But it doesn’t stop there.
Not only will you discover what love really means and how to apply it, but you discover your unique desires and necessities for having a romantic relationship. Believe me, there is a LOT that goes into building and maintaining a lasting relationship, but before you begin to even think about that, we need to focus on you first!
MY “FINDING LOVE” COACHING MODEL
(How I Coach Women To Find Love In My Courses & Faith-Based Products!)
Here’s a quick illustration of what my Christian dating beliefs look like.
When women think of “happily ever after”, it usually involves you and a man (your Mr. Right).
As a woman of faith, you also have a relationship with Christ. Many times, single women see these relationships as being two separate relationships!
I believe that in order to make any romantic relationship last, you have to connect the two relationships to become one. When you are connected to God’s love, and your ideal man is also connected, then you both become connected in the process. Because you are now connected by God’s perfect love, you can grow in yourself and in your relationship without sacrificing who you are or what you believe in during the process.
But it takes more than just your spiritual connection to really make your relationship last! In this picture, we see the same connection, but it is now shifted into a pyramid. While your and your Mr. Right are growing closer to Christ (and each other) there are a few stages that you must also deal with as you continue to develop your relationship…
1ST STAGE: YOUR CURRENT LOVE-LIFE (YOUR SINGLE SEASON)
In this stage, you get the chance to explore who you are as an individual. You also get to go deep into self-love mode. As in, you are spoiling yourself on a level that increases your confidence, beauty, and mind! By knowing more about yourself, your desire for love is grounded in God and yourself. You can then begin to focus on Mr. Right.
2ND STAGE: YOUR IDEAL LOVE-LIFE (YOU’RE READY TO LOVE AGAIN)
In this stage, we cover the specific desires and needs that you have for wanting to build and maintain a lasting relationship. You begin to get crystal clear on who you want in a future husband, what you need in a partner, and what your ideal relationship should look like. You’ll also remove any insecurities, baggage, fears, and doubts that may be blocking you from meeting Mr. Right.
3RD STAGE: YOUR GODLY LOVE-LIFE (YOUR DATING/ENGAGEMENT SEASON)
In this stage, we focus on incorporating God’s love into your love-life. You’ll understand the key principles of Christian dating, set healthy boundaries between men in your life and your heart, and get a firm grasp on what your role is in a Godly relationship. Learning how to keep Christ first will also prepare you for future dating experiences until your Mr. Right comes along.
MY STATEMENT OF FAITH
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN OFFICIALLY GET STARTED
As I mentioned before, preparing for love starts with YOU. I offer a free 7-day devotional that you can use now to help you find what love is currently in your life. Click below to start your devotional today!
WHAT THIS SITE IS NOT
Before we go any further, I’d like to address some things that my services are not.
1. This is not a dating site.
I am not a matchmaker. There is no time schedule when it comes to God’s timing. Therefore, I do not (and never will) guarantee that you will find Mr. Right after experiencing my services. Nor will I try to hook you up with anyone in the future. The goal here is to prepare your heart, mind, and spirit for when Mr. Right comes along.
2. This is not marriage counseling/couples therapy.
Though I did work with couples in the past (and my husband and I have discussed a future of couples coaching), I currently work exclusively with single women who are ready to prepare themselves for real love. It gets tricky when you are working with just one side of a two-sided relationship. My focus is to prepare single women to enter a like-minded relationship before any trials arise. Prevention, not Reaction is my motto.
3. This is not a mail-order bride service.
Just no. This is NOT the place for that. At. All.
HERE’S WHAT YOU CAN DO NEXT…
Because I spend a LOT of my time encouraging women to find love through my words, you should definitely stop by my blog and check it out before anything else!
I offer tips, advice, hope, and love-life lessons on the topics of faith, dating, relationships, marriage, single life, and breakups!
Because the majority of my 20’s was spent trying to find love (and failing miserably), my blog will cover a TON of personal stories to also help you learn some valuable tips when it comes to finding true love and building lasting relationships!
So check it out and be encouraged in your love-life today!
THANKS FOR VISITING!
So that’s me and my business in a nutshell! I want you to stick around–it’s my passion to serve women like you! I’d love to hear your questions, thoughts, or love stories that lead you to check out my page!
I respond to emails directly so I encourage you to send them! I’m not a love guru. I experienced the greatest love I could ever imagine and I found it by following this model. Now, I want to share what worked for me with you so that you can be blessed in your love life too!
With all of my love,