Ever wonder if you’re ready to date again?
I mean, it probably took you a long time just to get used to the fact that you were single.
And now that you’re here, it almost seems like too much of a pain to now have to change all over again just to get into the mindset of dating.
Ladies, this is how crazy cat and plant ladies are born. They find an inner peace within themselves that is way more valuable than sitting at home wondering if homeboy is ever gonna call or text back.
On the other side of the spectrum, you could be dying to get back on the dating scene! And to be honest, the only REAL reason why you aren’t on there at this very moment is that you just had a breakup/divorce and you’re waiting because everyone told you to.
However, you wanna spin it, choosing to start dating again is easier said than done.
You want to guard your heart against another possible breakup. But at the same time, you want to also see what’s out there.
The thought of laughing and cuddling with someone sounds wonderful. However, getting to that point could take a long time and a whole lot of messed up first dates.
And let’s not forget the fact that you are a woman of faith and finding a godly man (who isn’t married, corny, or attractive enough) is like finding a needle in a haystack.
Is it even worth it?
At first, you hated being single… Now you’re ok being single… but now you’re like a little “too comfortable”. So, at what point is it time for you to be open to the idea of dating again?
In this video, I share three questions to help you know if and when you’re ready to date again.
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Once I got real with myself and addressed these 3 questions, I knew that I was ready to date again.
I didn’t feel awkward or like I was rushing. Nor did I feel like I was going against God’s will. Which, can be a HUGE fear!
Before I said “yes” to dating Kyle I decided to go on a 3-week fast! Why? Because I wanted to be sure, without doubt, that my heart, spirit, and mind was ready.
Choosing to date again can be a total and complete step out of your comfort zone. Depending on where your heart lies, it could also be a move you make to determine if marriage is gonna be in the short-term future. Because let’s face it, ain’t nobody got time to date just for fun anymore!
So yes, while the stakes have risen, hopefully, you will be able to answer these questions that will result in the peace you need to move forward and find love for yourself.