We all know that getting over a breakup can sometimes lead to sad, depressing nights and heartache.
But you gotta realize that your breakups are a good thing! In fact, they can be a blessing in disguise!
How do I know? Because I am living proof!
My worst breakup ever was devastating and it completely shattered my world!
It changed everything about who I thought I was as a person. The direction of my future and my life entirely as I knew it was lost. I had a major identity crisis that carried out through the majority of my 20’s!
I was left empty, numb, and feeling lost.
Talk about absolutely no faith whatsoever in love! I was certain that love did not exist. Period.
That is until I met my husband.
When I finally began to fall for my husband, I could see so clearly why it had never worked with anyone else. In fact, breaking up with all those ex’s was actually a good thing!
Sure, before I got to this point, I had to do a bit of self-reflecting and self-love reconstruction before I was stable enough to move on with another relationship.
Much of that was tied to a major breakdown of my past that I did that allowed me to find God’s love in multiple areas of my life… Check it out!
With hindsight being 20/20, I realized that there were two major “ah-ha’s” I discovered during those major breakups.
These takeaways not only made it easier to move on, but it gave me the faith I needed to hope on. Hope for love. Hope that I wasn’t worth the crap I had experienced in my previous relationships.
In today’s video, I’ll be sharing with you what they are and how you can use them to reconsider your very own love life.
Now it’s your turn! What’s one major blessing that you gained from a tragic breakup? Share in the comments below!