We all know that getting over a breakup can sometimes lead to sad, depressing nights and heartache.
But you gotta realize that your breakups are a good thing! In fact, they can be a blessing in disguise!
How do I know? Because I am living proof!
My worst breakup ever was devastating and it completely shattered my world!
It changed everything about who I thought I was as a person. The direction of my future and my life entirely as I knew it was lost. I had a major identity crisis that carried out through the majority of my 20’s!
I was left empty, numb, and feeling lost.
Talk about absolutely no faith whatsoever in love! I was certain that love did not exist. Period.
That is until I met my husband.
When I finally began to fall for my husband, I could see so clearly why it had never worked with anyone else. In fact, breaking up with all those ex’s was actually a good thing!
Sure, before I got to this point, I had to do a bit of self-reflecting and self-love reconstruction before I was stable enough to move on with another relationship.
Much of that was tied to a major breakdown of my past that I did that allowed me to find God’s love in multiple areas of my life… Check it out!
With hindsight being 20/20, I realized that there were two major “ah-ha’s” I discovered during those major breakups.
These takeaways not only made it easier to move on, but it gave me the faith I needed to hope on. Hope for love. Hope that I wasn’t worth the crap I had experienced in my previous relationships.
In today’s video, I’ll be sharing with you what they are and how you can use them to reconsider your very own love life.