Are you debating whether or not you should be ending your relationship before going into the holidays and a New Year?
So, we are in full swing of the holiday season, and you may be looking forward to spending your season with your friends and family, including your special someone.
However…are they truly special enough to keep around the holiday season, and to keep through the new year?
Studies show that breakups are most popular right around the holidays (either right before Thanksgiving, or just after New Year’s). And for numerous reasons.
Sidenote: I am living proof that this study is indeed true! I got dumped just four days before Christmas! Talk about a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! I’m being sarcastic. That Christmas and New Year were actually one of the worst for me! But… I’m a better person today than who I was then!
Taking them to see your family might be nerve-wracking.
The thought that they would be there during your most cherished moments of the year when you really aren’t feeling them all like that.
Or, maybe you’re just starting to realize that this guy isn’t someone you’d actually wanna see yourself spending the holidays with. Year. After year. After year.
It’s ok! You are totally ok with feeling as though the guy you’re with isn’t worth sticking around.
No need to feel guilty or as though you’re doing something wrong when you only want something better for yourself.
You may be feeling torn between what to do. I mean, after all, ending your relationship can get messy.
So hopefully by asking yourself the questions mentioned above, you’ll be able to have a bit more clarity in what you should do.