We all know that getting over a breakup can sometimes lead to sad, depressing nights and heartache, but you gotta realize that your breakups are a good thing! In fact, they can be a blessing in disguise!
How do I know? Because I am living proof!
My worst breakup ever was devastating and it completely shattered my world!
It erased everything about who I thought I was as a person, the direction of my future, and my life entirely as I knew it. I had a major identity crisis that carried out through the majority of my 20’s!
I was left empty, numb, and feeling lost.
Talk about absolutely no faith whatsoever for love! I was certain that love did not exist. Period.
That is, until I met my husband.
When I finally began to fall for my husband, I could see so clearly why it had never worked with anyone else. In fact, breaking up with all those ex’s was actually a good thing!
Sure, before I got to this point, I had to do a bit of self-reflecting and self-love reconstruction before I was stable enough to move on with another relationship.
(Psst… you can actually check out some of the self-love questions I used to ask myself during this season in this free handout below!)
With hindsight being 20/20, I realized that there were two major “ah-ha’s” I discovered during those major breakups.
These takeaways not only made it easier to move on, but it gave me the faith I needed to hope on. Hope for love. Hope that I wasn’t worth the crap I had experienced in my previous relationships.
In today’s video, I’ll be sharing with you what they are and how you can use them to reconsider your very own love life.#LoveTip #73: Your ideal #relationship should never leave you feeling broken. Click To Tweet